For David's proposal to Xinqing he worked with 30 of Xinqing's friends and family from around the world to prepare a scavenger hunt...in Disney Land!
Each of the 30 clues came in the form of a video, recorded by a friend. Below is the Whatsapp conversation where all the videos were presented. Be sure to at least watch the first video, from Xinqing's parents, and the last video, where I actually propose to her.
David Gaynor ❤️
Welcome to your proposal scavenger hunt Xinqing! Your friends and family from around the world have worked together to create a set of 30 clues, based on your life, that will lead to me asking you to marry me— but only if you’re clever enough to solve them!
Here’s how it works:
There are exactly 30 clues, split into 7 phases. Each phase has a cipher that looks like this:
Go to the (answer 1) which is on the (answer 2) and stand on top of it eating (answer 3).
To complete a phase you’ll need to crack the cipher, go to the specified location in Disney Land, and take a picture.
Each phase corresponds to both a time in your life AND a zone in Disney Land. They are as follows:
Phase 1: Xinqing’s childhood - Disney Main Street
Phase 2: Xinqing in college - Fantasyland
Phase 3: Xinqing at Oxford and McKinsey - Discoveryland
Phase 4 and 5: Xinqing in Nairobi - Adventure Land
Phase 6: Xinqing at SciencesPo - Frontier Land
Phase 7: Xinqing’s future - All of Disney
Once you’ve solved the first 6 ciphers you’ll receive a code that will allow you to unlock a PDF, which has the instructions for the final phase. The final phase has to be done at night, so you won’t get the code until 8:30 PM.
You have plenty of time to finish everything, and your friends are all here in this group to give you hints and cheer you along the way!
Now, if you’re ready to start, say hi to everyone and tell them you’re ready!
9:49 am
Gwin
Hi Xinqing!!! ❤️❤️
9:50 am
Xinqing LU
Helloooooooooio
9:51 am
Federico Da Fieno
Good luck XQ!!
9:51 am
Xinqing LU
I’m not sure I’m ready this sounds super complex lol
9:51 am
Xinqing LU
Can someone just secretly text me the answer 🥹
9:51 am
Federico Da Fieno
😂
9:51 am
Xinqing LU
The first clue please ???
9:52 am
Linghan
hahahah🍿 ready
9:52 am
David Gaynor ❤️
Phase 1: Childhood - Main street Disney
Cipher 1:
Find the person, born on (#letters in first word of answer 1) / (answer 2 - answer 3 - 99) / (answer 4 * 2 + answer 5), who lots of people look up to.
9:52 am
David Gaynor ❤️
Phase 1: Childhood - Main street Disney
Cipher 1:
Find the person, born on (#letters in first word of answer 1) / (answer 2 - answer 3 - 99) / (answer 4 * 2 + answer 5), who lots of people look up to.
9:53 am
John sabet BfN
So cuuuute!!!!!!!
9:56 am
David Gaynor ❤️
Clue 1:
When you were little your dad used to take you to kindergarten everyday on his bike. While you were on the way you both would usually play a game.
Xinqing, what was the name of the game?
9:56 am
Weiyi
Good luck Xinqing!!! Go go go!
9:56 am
Xinqing LU
Answer 1: 3
Game is Kan Jing Shuo Hua????
9:58 am
Xinqing LU
You deleted this message.
9:59 am
Annie Hu
Good luck Xinqing!!❤️
10:02 am
David Gaynor ❤️
Clue 2:
In the 4 years of chuzhong, Xinqing and I, together with some other friends, shared the way home after school on the same bus almost everyday.
Xinqing, my question for you is: what was the number of the bus line?
10:07 am
David Gaynor ❤️
Answer 2: 112!
10:09 am
Xinqing LU
Hahahaha this is my best guy friend from junior high school
10:16 am
David Gaynor ❤️
Clue 3:
During middle school, we used to have Physics classes taught by a teacher outside our school. Her classes were really useful and she believed Xinqing was the one of the smartest students she ever taught.
Xinqing, my question for you is: what was this teacher’s nickname?
10:26 am
David Gaynor ❤️
Xinqing is really struggling with this one...
10:26 am
David Gaynor ❤️
She's asking for clues in the WeChat group
10:26 am
Xinqing LU
Zhang San Feng !
10:27 am
Xinqing LU
they gave me clues
10:27 am
David Gaynor ❤️
Clue 4:
Qingqing sent me a gift to cheer me up before my college entrance exam. It was a hole puncher.
Qingqing, my question for you is: what was the hole shape?
10:30 am
David Gaynor ❤️
Lolll xinqing totally forgot this one
10:33 am
David Gaynor ❤️
Clue 5:
We went traveling together with our parents and one day we got up very early to see the sunrise on top of a famous mountain.
Xinqing, my question for you is: what is the height of the mountain we climbed?
10:34 am
Xinqing LU
Huangshan!!
10:35 am
Xinqing LU
Someone has to help me google it
10:35 am
Xinqing LU
What’s the height of Huangshan
10:35 am
Xinqing LU
I’m not allowed to google lol
10:35 am
Xinqing LU
David is so strict
10:35 am
Lina Yu
hahahahahahaha
10:37 am
Linghan
🙈I wanna type that answer for you but I’m so indecisive
10:40 am
David Gaynor ❤️
Lollll
10:42 am
David Gaynor ❤️
Love that you guys torture her!
10:42 am
Linghan
Let’s say it’s higher than 1800m 💪
10:43 am
Xinqing LU
7/10/1868
10:45 am
David Gaynor ❤️
Actually
10:51 am
David Gaynor ❤️
I messed up a minus and a plus
10:52 am
David Gaynor ❤️
Year is supposed to be 1856!
10:52 am
David Gaynor ❤️
Lol
10:52 am
David Gaynor ❤️
So it's Nikola Tesla!
10:52 am
Thibault Pichon Swizterland
🌟
11:05 am
David Gaynor ❤️
Phase 1 passcode section: 976
11:05 am
David Gaynor ❤️
Nice job! @Xinqing Lu !
11:05 am
David Gaynor ❤️
1/6 done!
11:05 am
Sriharsha Masabathula
🤩👏🎉
11:20 am
Stella Tan
Nice job @Xinqing Lu ! Yayy💪💪💪
11:22 am
John sabet BfN
Well done!!!!
11:28 am
David Gaynor ❤️
Phase 2: College - Fantasyland
Cipher 2:
Drink (temperature of answer 6) (answer 7) outside of the ride: (answer 8) (answer 9), making a (answer 10) hand motion.
11:44 am
David Gaynor ❤️
Clue 6:
In college we performed in a festival each year and Xinqing always directed our piece. In our final year she directed a piece called “The song of little accountants”.
Xinqing, my question for you is: what was the name of this show that we performed in each year?
11:44 am
Xinqing LU
Drink hot chocolate outside of the ride: Peter Pan, making a jazz hand motion
11:45 am
Xinqing LU
My random guess lol
11:45 am
David Gaynor ❤️
Not correct!
11:46 am
David Gaynor ❤️
You cheater
11:46 am
Xinqing LU
冬情!winter passion
11:46 am
Xinqing LU
Not hot 😱
11:46 am
David Gaynor ❤️
Clue 7:
Xinqing and I took tennis class together in college. After class one day we met a celebrity in the bathroom!
Xinqing, my question for you is: what drink was this celebrity famous for?
11:47 am
Xinqing LU
Milk tea!
11:56 am
David Gaynor ❤️
Clue 8:
A few years ago I visited Xinqing in Kenya. While there we visited the Masai Mara.
Xinqing, my question for you is: what was the name of the local guide we used while in Masai Mara?
11:57 am
David Gaynor ❤️
Clue 9:
In college we took a physical education class together.
Xinqing, my question for you is: what is the Chinese word for the sport we played?
12:02 pm
Stella Tan
Wow… great memory!
12:07 pm
John sabet BfN
You’re acing it @Xinqing Lu 😎🤩💍
12:10 pm
John sabet BfN
Really wants that proposal @David Gaynor!!! Heheh
12:11 pm
John sabet BfN
加油!
12:11 pm
David Gaynor ❤️
Clue 10:
Xinqing and all of us roommates performed a song together at freshmen summer camp.
Xinqing, my question for you is: which line did you sing?
12:16 pm
Xinqing LU
Got the second one!
12:39 pm
Xinqing LU
It’s “So” in the song haha hence the hand ✋
12:39 pm
Jillian
You cutie 🥹
12:40 pm
Stella Tan
Hahahahah
12:48 pm
David Gaynor ❤️
Phase 3: Oxford and McKinsey - Discoveryland
Cipher 3:
Find the characters from a Disney movie released in (answer 11 + 146), where two (third word from answer 12) start at (answer 13) and then go to (first word from answer 14).
12:55 pm
David Gaynor ❤️
Clue 11:
When you and I traveled to France together many years ago, we bought a box of very expensive but very tasty macarons from a popular brand.
Xinqing, my question for you is: when was the first shop for this brand founded?
12:55 pm
Ella WEF
how could anyone possibly remember the year when laduree founded?
1:05 pm
David Gaynor ❤️
She had a bitttt of Google help
1:06 pm
David Gaynor ❤️
I'm mean she couldn't even remember the name of her high school teacher ...
1:06 pm
Ella WEF
love the cute picture memories 😍
1:08 pm
David Gaynor ❤️
Clue 12:
Xinqing and I didn’t get acquainted until we prepped for an exam together in the same study room. Over that period we were very stressed and would watch a very violent cartoon together to destress.
Xinqing, my question for you is: what was the name of the cartoon?
1:20 pm
David Gaynor ❤️
Clue 13:
Xinqing and I met when we were both working together at McKinsey. She was my role model in many ways. I love how she has always been super self aware and good at self promotion. One of my favorite memories is how she created a Powerpoint deck with her "storyline" - “storyline” is, of course, us consultants' favorite term. She’s accomplished almost everything from that deck! However, on page two of the deck, there is a prediction that notably changed after she wrote it.
Xinqing, my question for you is: What was the image to the left of the point from your storyline deck that notably changed in the last few years?
1:27 pm
David Gaynor ❤️
Clue 14:
A few years ago Xinqing, myself and our friend Sissi went on a bike trip in China. One part of the trip we were really looking forward to was a famous lake, which was supposed to be very pretty. Turns out, reality was very different from the photos.
Xinqing, my question for you is: what is the colloquial name of this lake?
1:33 pm
Xinqing LU
Hahaha I actually really fulfilled most of my objectives!
1:40 pm
Xinqing LU
Phase 3: Oxford and McKinsey - Discoveryland
Cipher 3:
Find the characters from a Disney movie released in 2008), where two friends start at earth and then go to the sky
1:41 pm
Susan Gaynor
How is it going.? Difficult clues! You are crushing it!
2:06 pm
David Gaynor ❤️
Phase 4: Nairobi - Adventure Land
Cipher 4:
Find the spot where there is a sign on the (second word from answer 15), written in (answer 16) which happens to reference the titles of two Disney movies: The first released in (answer 17, in grams + 407) and the second about a character that steals (3rd word in answer 18) and rides an (answer 19).
2:10 pm
David Gaynor ❤️
Clue 15:
At the start of the COVID lockdown in Nairobi in 2020, everyone was very careful. Finally, after 3 months of not leaving the house myself and some friends decided to have a Covid safe getaway at a boutique hotel in Karen. That’s where I met Xinqing and our other close friends, Yi and Gwin for the first time! Xinqing especially impressed me with her patience when teaching people how to play Catan - she was relentless!
Xinqing, my question for you is: what’s the name of the boutique hotel we stayed at?
2:10 pm
Xinqing LU
@Weiyi Gable!
2:15 pm
David Gaynor ❤️
Clue 16:
When Xinqing was about to leave Kenya to explore the next chapter of her life journey in France, she was a bit sad and I was the same too— I didn’t want her to leave. We went to a really nice restaurant in Nairobi, chatted about future plans, did some reading at a lovely garden. It was a really relaxing afternoon together.
Xinqing, my question for you is: what kind of food did we have at that restaurant?
2:16 pm
David Gaynor ❤️
Clue 17:
When Xinqing and I lived together in Nairobi, during Covid, we worked out every day. I always talked about how I wanted a heavier weight to exercise with, so for my birthday she bought me a very heavy kettlebell. She could barely even lift it into the Uber!
Xinqing, my question for you is: how heavy was the kettlebell?
2:40 pm
Xinqing LU
@Yi Li 15 kg???
2:43 pm
Yi Li
But very close haha
2:44 pm
Gwin
Yi lifts 30kg now!
2:45 pm
Susan Gaynor
Keep up the good work!
2:48 pm
David Gaynor ❤️
Clue 18:
I’ve known Xinqing since her early days in Nairobi, when we got in the habit of running together in Karura forest. It was on one of these runs that I first met David, her now fiancee. After that run, Xinqing, David and I all went to a Cafe that we always loved going to.
Xinqing, my question for you is: what was the name of that Cafe?
2:50 pm
Xinqing LU
Le Grenier!!
3:07 pm
Xinqing LU
We went back to that cafe with David last time ! @Amaar
3:08 pm
Xinqing LU
Found the walle
3:08 pm
David Gaynor ❤️
Clue 19:
Xinqing and I used to live together when we were in Nairobi. We watched movies, made coffee, did yoga, played 2-person board games, and hosted many weekend parties togethe. On top of this, we also took care of the house dog!
Xinqing, what was the dog’s name?
3:10 pm
Xinqing LU
Ndovu! 🐘
3:12 pm
Xinqing LU
Phase 4: Nairobi - Adventure Land
Cipher 4:
Find the spot where there is a sign on the (gable/wall), written in (French) which happens to reference the titles of two Disney movies: The first released in (1600 + 407) and the second about a character that steals (bread) and rides an (elephant ).
3:15 pm
Xinqing LU
Alladin!
3:15 pm
Xinqing LU
Found it 👍
3:21 pm
David Gaynor ❤️
Phase 5: Nairobi - Adventureland
Cipher 5:
Find some (answer 20) (valuable thing which starts with the first letter of answer 21), which you can find in this zone, on an (place where you ate a lot of answer 22, growing up). Make sure you include a (meaning of first word in answer 23) and something (english translation of answer 24).
3:26 pm
David Gaynor ❤️
Clue 20:
I went home to China in September of last year and unfortunately I had to quarantine at a hotel for 2 weeks by myself. Xinqing had started her Podcast and asked if I was interested in doing an episode on traveling in the middle of the pandemic. Given I was (f)unemployed, had nothing else to do during quarantine and being on a Podcast sounded super fun, I joined her. Before I knew it, I was a regular!
Xinqing, my question for you is: what is the color of your favorite dog breed, that we talked about in Episode 4?
3:26 pm
Angelina
Hmmm what color could it be 🤔
3:27 pm
Xinqing LU
Golden retriever!
3:29 pm
Xinqing LU
Goldennnnn
3:29 pm
Angelina
Yeahhh!!!!
3:29 pm
Xinqing LU
@Angelina
3:29 pm
Angelina
🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🥰🥰🥰🥰
3:29 pm
Susan Gaynor
Love the doodle!
3:30 pm
David Gaynor ❤️
Clue 21:
When we were both living in Nairobi Xinqing and I went on a retreat together. Every night we'd sit next to the fire, listen to guitar music and play spy games.
Xinqing, my question for you is: what product is made in this region where we took the retreat?
3:30 pm
Xinqing LU
Green tea! @Nava
3:31 pm
David Gaynor ❤️
Clue 22:
On our first trip with Xinqing we went to Morocco to celebrate Christmas with another couple from Sichuan, and it became the best trip ever. One of the best parts for Xinqing was the fruit! Morocco has lots of very cheap fruit. One type in particular was her favorite. She ate them non-stop even though, in Chinese culture, this fruit can upset the stomach if you eat too much. Apparently she has a fruit eating superpower!
Xinqing, my question for you is: What is this fruit that you can eat so much of?
3:36 pm
Xinqing LU
Persimmon 😂😂😂
3:40 pm
David Gaynor ❤️
Clue 23:
Xinqing and I first met during our friend Meredith’s birthday party, and immediately connected over a shared love of the TV show Doctor Who. For my last birthday when Xinqing called me, we talked about the upcoming Doctor Who actor.
Xinqing, my question for you is: what is the name of the actor we talked about?
3:41 pm
Xinqing LU
Ncuti Gatwa!
3:42 pm
Xinqing LU
Thanks for the video!!!
3:43 pm
Xinqing LU
And happppppy birthday very belated
3:43 pm
David Gaynor ❤️
Clue 24:
Our first trip with Xinqing was the journey to Morocco at the end of 2018, we spent Christmas and new year together. That’s when we got to know each other and became friends. The trip took around 12 days and we enjoyed the whole thing. More importantly we made friends we hope to be in touch with for the rest of our lives!
Xinqing, my question for you is: What is the second city we visited on that trip?
3:43 pm
Xinqing LU
@David Henia
3:44 pm
Xinqing LU
Phase 5: Nairobi - Adventureland
Cipher 5:
Treasure ), which you can find in this zone, on an (island ). Make sure you include a (friend ) and something (tangy )
3:49 pm
Xinqing LU
Gold treasure *
3:50 pm
David Gaynor ❤️
Got some tangy tea
4:12 pm
David Gaynor ❤️
Phase 6: Sciences Po - Frontierland
Cipher 6:
Find a place where people who permanently (answer 25) are put into their own (answer 26 second word). Then find a demonstration of (answer 27 first word) and take a picture with the one who is most likely to eat (answer 28).
4:26 pm
David Gaynor ❤️
Clue 25:
Xinqing and I met at SciencesPo and quickly bonded over our love of Doctor Who.
Xinqing, my question for you is: what was the episode we both agreed was the scariest?
4:26 pm
Xinqing LU
Phase 6: Sciences Po - Frontierland
Cipher 6:
Find a place where people who permanently (lives) are put into their own (tomb). Then find a demonstration of (love) and take a picture with the one who is most likely to eat (bananas).
4:27 pm
Xinqing LU
Random guess 😂
4:27 pm
Matt sciences po
👎🏻
4:27 pm
David Gaynor ❤️
Definitely 👎
4:28 pm
Xinqing LU
Don’t blink !
4:28 pm
Xinqing LU
Weeping angle
4:29 pm
Xinqing LU
Who permanently blinks?/weeps?
4:29 pm
David Gaynor ❤️
Clue 26:
Shortly before Xinqing left Paris to move to Nairobi she stayed at my place with me and my dog Ginny. I was feeling a bit down because our Master’s program had just finished, and I wasn’t sure what was coming next for me. However, Ginny and I were both very happy to have Auntie Xinqing around to watch movies with and and cheer us up!
Xinqing, my question for you: What attractive male star played a nearly invincible character in one of the films?
4:29 pm
Xinqing LU
Brad Pitt (but I think Orlando is definitely more attractive lol) @Munise ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
4:32 pm
Munise sciences po
+1 😂👍🏼
4:32 pm
Munise sciences po
Haha she looks confused
4:33 pm
David Gaynor ❤️
Clue 27:
Xinqing being a self-confessed star student, you can imagine my delight when she agreed to buddy up with me for a presentation during our oceans governance class at Sciences Po.
Xinqing, my question for you is: can you remember what the topic of the presentation was?
4:33 pm
Xinqing LU
BBNJ @Emma
4:35 pm
Xinqing LU
Biodiversity of area beyond national jurisdiction !
4:36 pm
David Gaynor ❤️
Clue 28
For my Civil Union party in Paris Xinqing bought me some cheese and jam. Although the cheese ended up melting it was still delicious.
Xinqing, my question for you is: What was the special ingredient in the cheese and what was the jam made out of?
4:37 pm
Xinqing LU
Phase 6: Sciences Po - Frontierland
Cipher 6:
Find a place where people who permanently blinks are put into their own (pit). Then find a demonstration of (biodiversity ) and take a picture with the one who is most likely to eat (fig).
4:40 pm
Stella Tan
So cute!!😍
5:33 pm
Susan Gaynor
It is so professional
5:46 pm
Susan Gaynor
Whoops …wrong thread
5:55 pm
David Gaynor ❤️
I'll take it!
7:35 pm
David Gaynor ❤️
Xinqing is coming up on the last phase, now that she's completed the first 6 phases!
7:36 pm
David Gaynor ❤️
In one hour approximately
7:36 pm
Lina Yu
Nicely done
7:36 pm
Susan Gaynor
Excellent!
7:37 pm
John sabet BfN
加油!!! 🌟
7:59 pm
David Gaynor ❤️
Phase 1 passcode section: 976
8:39 pm
David Gaynor ❤️
Phase 2 passcode section: 222
8:39 pm
David Gaynor ❤️
Phase 3 passcode section: 265
8:39 pm
David Gaynor ❤️
Passcode section 4: 912
8:40 pm
David Gaynor ❤️
Phase 5 passcode section: 876
8:40 pm
David Gaynor ❤️
Phase 6 passcode: 212
8:41 pm
David Gaynor ❤️
888
8:42 pm
David Gaynor ❤️
And that's the unlocked pdf!
8:49 pm
Federico Da Fieno
Congratulations Xinqing and David!!!!!
8:49 pm
Susan Gaynor
Much love and congratulations
8:51 pm
Angelina
Congrats!!! 恭喜!
8:56 pm
Weiyi
Congratulations!!🎉
8:59 pm
Thibault Pichon Swizterland
Congrats on being engaged to each other, twice!!!
8:59 pm
Xinqing LU
The Lego drawing is AMAZING!!!
9:01 pm
Sachi
That’s so lovely 💕 Congratulations Xinqing and David ! You are all so amazing 🌟
9:05 pm
Sriharsha Masabathula
Congratulations!! 🎉 💕
9:05 pm
Stella Tan
Amazing guys, so happy for you again!!! 🎉🎉❤️❤️❤️ (Love the Lego drawing!!)
9:05 pm
Gwin
So much love 😭😭❤️❤️❤️❤️
9:16 pm
Annie Hu
So happy for you two @Xinqing Lu @David Gaynor ❤️❤️
10:05 pm
Joanna WEF
Cooooongrats @Xinqing Lu and @David Gaynor ♥️
10:08 pm
Lina Yu
congrats to the sweeeet couple 💑 what a lovely day
10:12 pm
John sabet BfN
Congratulations 💞💐💞
10:13 pm
John sabet BfN
Truly!!!! 🤩😍
10:16 pm
Jillian
😍😍😍😍 congratulations!!!!!! You’re going to be so happy together!!!!
10:22 pm
Munise sciences po
Congrats guys! Wish you all the best 🥂
10:30 pm
Matt sciences po
Thank goodness she said yes!
Congrats guys and enjoy celebrating 😍😍😍
10:35 pm
Xinqing LU
THANK YOU ALL!! You guys are amazing
11:36 pm
Xinqing LU
David showed me a lot of the behind the scene stories, thank you all for making the videos and thinking about clues and staying online, even when you are alllll so busy
11:36 pm
Xinqing LU
I feel really touched to have you all as friends! ❤️
11:37 pm
Xinqing LU
HELLO everyone! Thanks again for the amazing proposal! Now that we are engaged, we've officially set a date for the wedding in the US! We'll be doing our courthouse wedding on Thursday, August 4th in Baltimore (Maryland) then a reception and ceremony of our own design on Saturday, August 6th.
Here is our wedding website *xinqing-david.com*! If you are able to make it, please RSVP by June 30th! If you cannot, check out the website anyway because it has some fun features of our own design😆 entirely built by amazing developer David and not-so-brilliant graph designer Xinqing!
3:29 pm
Lina Yu
Nice cover photo Xinqing, and chose the sad face hahaha
7:11 pm